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Table Of Contents

Introduction
Chapter 1: Revelations
     Revelation 1: I Am
     Revelation 2: The One Became the Many
     Revelation 3: Everything Is Yours, Not Just Some of It
     Revelation 4: The Download
Chapter 2: BeliefsOur Beliefs Create Our Reality
     If You Believe Something, Does That Make It Real?
     Knowledge Comes from Opinions, Facts, and Personal Experiences
     Making Decisions and Judgments Based on Very Limited Information and Experience
     What Is Truth?
     Faith Is Trust
Chapter 3: Explaining God
     A Light Bulb Analogy
     Consciousness Versus Conscience
     Projecting Our Human Perspective onto Our Definitions of “God”
     The Illusion of Separation Hides the Fact That We Are One
     Ignore Logic to Proceed
     Faith Is Always Required Because Awakenings Become Memories
     Ignorance Causes Conflict
     I Am
     Truth—You Know It When You Hear It
     God Is…
     Stop Ignoring the Suffering on Earth
     Free Will Has Consequences
     Our Painful Experiences Can Be Used to Help Others Later
Chapter 4: Needs—Instinctual Drives
     Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
     Needs = Instinctual Drives
     Our Needs for Sex and Financial Security (Money) Are the Primary Drivers Behind Our
     Selfishness
     Life Is Stressful When Physiological Needs Are Not Met or Are Threatened
     How Much Money Is Enough?
     Finding a Balance Between Saving and Hoarding
     Asking Others for Money
     Inheritance Can Be a Curse
     Can Money Buy Love?
     If You Could Be Granted Any Wish, What Would It Be?
     Lottery Winners
     Happiness Is in the Future Once I Get…
     Happiness Is Not a Choice
     I’ll Be Happy When I Get More….
     Instant Gratification Versus Delayed Gratification
     Instincts: Sex, Sex, and More Sex…
     Human Partnership Is Usually a Conditional Trade for Sex and Financial Security
Chapter 5: Nature Is Balanced
     The Perfect Circle of Giving and Receiving in Nature
Chapter 6: What We Give Is What We Get
     Life Is a Boomerang
     Drug Dealers Say, “Someone Has to Supply the Demand”
     What I Dish Out Comes Back
     If You Give Insults, You Will Receive Insults
     Do You Get Away with Stealing If Nobody Sees It?
     The Results of Making Money by Benefiting Others Versus by Harming Others

Chapter 7: Unconditional Giving
     Feelings from Unconditional Giving
     Spiritual Awakenings Result from the Action of Unconditional Giving to Others Over Time
     Continued Giving Is Required to Maintain a Spiritual Awakening
     Are Poor People the “Happiest”?
     Happiness Is Only Real When It Is Shared
     Self-Focus Is the Problem—Other-Focus Is the Solution
     Unconditional Giving Is Sometimes Inconvenient
     Helping a Stranger Who Asks
     Helping Those Who Don’t Give in Return
     HALT!
     Keep Giving Consistently, Regardless of Your Circumstances
     Say “Yes” to Giving Opportunities
     “I Will Help, But Only If I Get Something Out of It”
     Are All Your Interactions with People Conditional?
Chapter 8: Setting Limits on Giving
Giving Money
     Delaying an Answer to a Financial Request
     Drug Addiction Increases Selfishness
     Sometimes Not Helping Others Financially Helps Them
Chapter 9: Trust
     We Trust Givers
     When Losing Trust in Others Is “Wising Up”
     Healing Takes Time and Patience
     Trusting That Unconditional Giving Is Possible Allows Others to Practice It
     Do Not Convert Unconditional Giving to Conditional Giving
Chapter 10: Relationships
     “I Can’t Love You Until I Love Myself”
     Stress Is the Test for Every Relationship
     The Current Trend Is to Make No Commitments
     Communicating Your Needs
     Saying “I Love You”
     Real Love Is the Most Valuable Thing in Life
Chapter 11: What Are You Teaching Others?
     We Are Always Teaching Each Other by Example
     Reacting to Anger
     Who Are Your Heroes and Why?
     Givers Are Our Favorites
     The Full Cycle of Human Life
     Attention Is the Most Important Thing I Can Give My Child
     Down Syndrome Teachers
     Dog and Cat Teachers
     Attractive Qualities
     Every Choice Matters
     Following My Heart, Not My Head
Chapter 12: Ideas for Giving
     The Most Valuable Thing I Can Give to Others Is My Attention
     Giving Compliments
     Text Others Meaningful Words from Your Heart
     Free Compliments—A Great Idea
     Smile Often
     It Feels Good to Give Others Opportunities to Give
     Always Having to “Get the Deal” Is Not Very Giving
     Traffic Provides Opportunities to Practice Giving
     Always Be Nice to People in Service Positions
     Listening to My Heart with a Homeless Couple
     Nothing Feels Better Than Giving to Others
     I Asked My Daughter, “Why Be a Giver?”
     Be Real
     Business Giving: Give with No Catch
     Exercise = Better Mood = Better Giver

Chapter 13: Forgiveness
     Forgiving Means Giving Before It Is Deserved or Earned
     Never Lend Money
     Asking for Forgiveness
     Forgiveness Is Always the Solution
     Thumbs-Up and Smile—I Forgive You for Being an Idiot
     It Takes Courage and Humility to Apologize When We Are Wrong
     Forgive Others When They Apologize for Being Wrong
     There Is No Defense Against Love
     The Solution to Racism Is Forgiveness
     Homosexuality Exists by Design—Live and Let Live
Chapter 14: What’s My Purpose in Life?
     Is Your Life’s Purpose Expressed in Your Occupation?
     Persistence Is Required to Complete Your Goals
Chapter 15: Clarity on Christianity
     Accounts of Jesus in the Bible Were Not Written Down Until Decades After His Death
     The Core Message of Christianity
     Christianity Has 30,000+ Versions, with Each Claiming Absolute Interpretation of the Truth
     Religion’s Rules, Traditions, and Rituals Were Not Part of Jesus’ Message
     My First Attempt at “Getting Saved” Was in a Trailer Church in Louisiana
     “Jesus, Save Me”—What Part Do I Play?
     What Is Hell?
     What Is Sin?
     Christianity’s Mainstream Interpretation of “Jesus Died for Our Sins”
     Grace, Karma, and Forgiveness of Sins
     Two Thousand Years Ago, Selfish Instinctual Drives Were Defined as the Devil
     In the Year 2000, I Learned the Truth About the “Devil”
     “Jesus Is the Only Way”
     Become Like Children Again—Return to Innocence
     The Core Message Is That “Simple” Works: Focus on One Thing and Do It Well
     Oxymoron: A Wealthy Spiritual Leader
     Despite Its Shortcomings, Christianity Gives Big
     Actions Speak Louder Than Words
     What Is God’s Will?
     Prayer
     A Method of Meditation I Find Easy to Do
     The Goal Is Progress, Not Perfection
Chapter 16: Death Is Not the End
     Our Ego Dies, Not Our Spirit
     Spiritual Death Does Not Exist
     The Illusion of Separation
     Fear Is Mostly Imagined
     What Really Matters at the End of This Human Life?
Chapter 17: My Life Experiences with Grief and Miracles
     My Experiences with Grief
     The Miracle Healing Story of My Dad’s Pancreatic Cancer
     My Dad Contacts Me in a Dream
Chapter 18: World Goals
     World Goal 1: Clean Drinking Water for Those Without It
     World Goal 2: Adopting Just One Homeless Person or Family
     Judging the Homeless in Five Seconds
     Four Categories of Homeless People
     World Goal 3: Getting Rid of Nuclear Weapons
     World Goal 4: Population Reduction
Chapter 19: Expert Giver Groups
     Introduction
     The Foundation of Expert Giver Groups Comes from AA’s Proven Methods
     The 7 Steps of Expert Giver Groups (Short Form)
     The 7 Steps of Expert Giver Groups (Long Form)
     Step 1: Finding a Mentor in an Expert Giver Group
     Step 2: Completing Your Personal Inventories
     Step 3: Reviewing All Four of Your Inventories with Your Mentor
     Step 4: Making a List of Amends and Reviewing It with Your Mentor
     Step 5: Making Your Amends
     Step 6: Take a Daily Personal Inventory and Promptly Admit When You Are Wrong
     Step 7: Mentoring Others
     The Ten Guidelines of Expert Giver Groups (Long Form)
     The Ten Guidelines of Expert Giver Groups (Short Form)
     Suggested Guidelines for Opening and Closing Expert Giver Group Meetings
     List of Figures
     Figure 1: Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
     List of Tables
     Table 1: Master of Resentments
     Table 2: Resentment #1 (Offenders)
     Table 3: Resentment List #2 (What Happened / Instincts Affected)
     Table 4: Resentment List #3 (My Part in What Happened)
     Table 5: Resentment List #4 (Forgiveness, when I have no part)
     Table 6: Daily Personal Inventory
     There’s a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments,
     and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance. That principle is contempt
      prior to investigation.
—Herbert Spencer

Summary Of The Book
Table Of Contents

  • Chapter 1: Revelations
  • Revelation 1: I Am
  • Revelation 2: The One Became the Many
  • Revelation 3: Everything Is Yours, Not Just Some of It
  • Revelation 4: The Download
  • Chapter 2: Beliefs | Our Beliefs Create Our Reality
  • If You Believe Something, Does That Make It Real?
  • Knowledge Comes from Opinions, Facts, and Personal Experiences
  • Making Decisions and Judgments Based on Very Limited Information and Experience
  • What Is Truth?
  • Faith Is Trust
  • Chapter 3: Explaining God
  • A Light Bulb Analogy
  • Consciousness Versus Conscience
  • Projecting Our Human Perspective onto Our Definitions of “God”
  • The Illusion of Separation Hides the Fact That We Are One
  • Ignore Logic to Proceed
  • Faith Is Always Required Because Awakenings Become Memories
  • Ignorance Causes Conflict
  • I Am
  • Truth—You Know It When You Hear It
  • God Is…
  • Stop Ignoring the Suffering on Earth
  • Free Will Has Consequences
  • Our Painful Experiences Can Be Used to Help Others Later
  • Chapter 4: Needs | Instinctual Drives
  • Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
  • Needs = Instinctual Drives
  • Our Needs for Sex and Financial Security (Money) Are the Primary Drivers Behind Our Selfishness
  • Life Is Stressful When Physiological Needs Are Not Met or Are Threatened
  • How Much Money Is Enough?
  • Finding a Balance Between Saving and Hoarding
  • Asking Others for Money
  • Inheritance Can Be a Curse
  • Can Money Buy Love?
  • If You Could Be Granted Any Wish, What Would It Be?
  • Lottery Winners
  • Happiness Is in the Future Once I Get…
  • Happiness Is Not a Choice
  • I’ll Be Happy When I Get More….
  • Instant Gratification Versus Delayed Gratification
  • Instincts: Sex, Sex, and More Sex…
  • Human Partnership Is Usually a Conditional Trade for Sex and Financial Security
  • Chapter 5: Nature Is Balanced
  • The Perfect Circle of Giving and Receiving in Nature
  • Chapter 6: What We Give Is What We Get
  • Life Is a Boomerang
  • Drug Dealers Say, “Someone Has to Supply the Demand”
  • What I Dish Out Comes Back
  • If You Give Insults, You Will Receive Insults
  • Do You Get Away with Stealing If Nobody Sees It?
  • The Results of Making Money by Benefiting Others Versus by Harming Others
  • Chapter 7: Unconditional Giving
  • Feelings from Unconditional Giving
  • Spiritual Awakenings Result from the Action of Unconditional Giving to Others Over Time
  • Continued Giving Is Required to Maintain a Spiritual Awakening
  • Are Poor People the “Happiest”?
  • Happiness Is Only Real When It Is Shared
  • Self-Focus Is the Problem—Other-Focus Is the Solution
  • Unconditional Giving Is Sometimes Inconvenient
  • Helping a Stranger Who Asks
  • Helping Those Who Don’t Give in Return
  • HALT!
  • Keep Giving Consistently, Regardless of Your Circumstances
  • Say “Yes” to Giving Opportunities
  • “I Will Help, But Only If I Get Something Out of It”
  • Are All Your Interactions with People Conditional?
  • Chapter 8: Setting Limits on Giving
  • Giving Money
  • Delaying an Answer to a Financial Request
  • Drug Addiction Increases Selfishness
  • Sometimes Not Helping Others Financially Helps Them
  • Chapter 9: Trust
  • We Trust Givers
  • When Losing Trust in Others Is “Wising Up”
  • Healing Takes Time and Patience
  • Trusting That Unconditional Giving Is Possible Allows Others to Practice It
  • Do Not Convert Unconditional Giving to Conditional Giving
  • Chapter 10: Relationships
  •  “I Can’t Love You Until I Love Myself”
  • Stress Is the Test for Every Relationship
  • The Current Trend Is to Make No Commitments
  • Communicating Your Needs
  • Saying “I Love You”
  • Real Love Is the Most Valuable Thing in Life
  • Chapter 11: What Are You Teaching Others?
  •  We Are Always Teaching Each Other by Example
  • Reacting to Anger
  • Who Are Your Heroes and Why?
  • Givers Are Our Favorites
  • The Full Cycle of Human Life
  • Attention Is the Most Important Thing I Can Give My Child
  • Down Syndrome Teachers
  • Dog and Cat Teachers
  • Attractive Qualities
  • Every Choice Matters
  • Following My Heart, Not My Head
  • Chapter 12: Ideas for Giving
  • The Most Valuable Thing I Can Give to Others Is My Attention
  • Giving Compliments
  • Text Others Meaningful Words from Your Heart
  • Free Compliments—A Great Idea
  • Smile Often
  • It Feels Good to Give Others Opportunities to Give
  • Always Having to “Get the Deal” Is Not Very Giving
  • Traffic Provides Opportunities to Practice Giving
  • Always Be Nice to People in Service Positions
  • Listening to My Heart with a Homeless Couple
  • Nothing Feels Better Than Giving to Others
  • I Asked My Daughter, “Why Be a Giver?”
  • Be Real
  • Business Giving: Give with No Catch
  • Exercise = Better Mood = Better Giver
  • Chapter 13: Forgiveness
  • Forgiving Means Giving Before It Is Deserved or Earned
  • Never Lend Money
  • Asking for Forgiveness
  • Forgiveness Is Always the Solution
  • Thumbs-Up and Smile—I Forgive You for Being an Idiot
  • It Takes Courage and Humility to Apologize When We Are Wrong
  • Forgive Others When They Apologize for Being Wrong
  • There Is No Defense Against Love
  • The Solution to Racism Is Forgiveness
  • Homosexuality Exists by Design—Live and Let Live
  • Chapter 14: What’s My Purpose in Life?
  • Is Your Life’s Purpose Expressed in Your Occupation?
  • Persistence Is Required to Complete Your Goals
  • Chapter 15: Clarity on Christianity
  • Accounts of Jesus in the Bible Were Not Written Down Until Decades After His Death
  • The Core Message of Christianity
  • Christianity Has 30,000+ Versions, with Each Claiming Absolute Interpretation of the Truth
  • Religion’s Rules, Traditions, and Rituals Were Not Part of Jesus’ Message
  • My First Attempt at “Getting Saved” Was in a Trailer Church in Louisiana
  • “Jesus, Save Me”—What Part Do I Play?
  • What Is Hell?
  • What Is Sin?
  • Christianity’s Mainstream Interpretation of “Jesus Died for Our Sins”
  • Grace, Karma, and Forgiveness of Sins
  • Two Thousand Years Ago, Selfish Instinctual Drives Were Defined as the Devil
  • In the Year 2000, I Learned the Truth About the “Devil”
  • “Jesus Is the Only Way”
  • Become Like Children Again—Return to Innocence
  • The Core Message Is That “Simple” Works: Focus on One Thing and Do It Well
  • Oxymoron: A Wealthy Spiritual Leader
  • Despite Its Shortcomings, Christianity Gives Big
  • Actions Speak Louder Than Words
  • What Is God’s Will?
  • Prayer
  • A Method of Meditation I Find Easy to Do
  • The Goal Is Progress, Not Perfection
  • Chapter 16: Death Is Not the End
  • Our Ego Dies, Not Our Spirit
  • Spiritual Death Does Not Exist
  • The Illusion of Separation
  • Fear Is Mostly Imagined
  • What Really Matters at the End of This Human Life?
  • Chapter 17: My Life Experiences with Grief and Miracles
  • My Experiences with Grief
  • The Miracle Healing Story of My Dad’s Pancreatic Cancer
  • My Dad Contacts Me in a Dream
  • Chapter 18: World Goals
  •  World Goal 1: Clean Drinking Water for Those Without It
  • World Goal 2: Adopting Just One Homeless Person or Family
  • Judging the Homeless in Five Seconds
  • Four Categories of Homeless People
  • World Goal 3: Getting Rid of Nuclear Weapons
  • World Goal 4: Population Reduction
  • Chapter 19: Expert Giver Groups
  •  Introduction
  • The Foundation of Expert Giver Groups Comes from AA’s Proven Methods
  • The 7 Steps of Expert Giver Groups (Short Form)
  • The 7 Steps of Expert Giver Groups (Long Form)
  • Step 1: Finding a Mentor in an Expert Giver Group
  • Step 2: Completing Your Personal Inventories
  • Step 3: Reviewing All Four of Your Inventories with Your Mentor
  • Step 4: Making a List of Amends and Reviewing It with Your Mentor
  • Step 5: Making Your Amends
  • Step 6: Take a Daily Personal Inventory and Promptly Admit When You Are Wrong
  • Step 7: Mentoring Others
  • The Ten Guidelines of Expert Giver Groups (Long Form)
  • The Ten Guidelines of Expert Giver Groups (Short Form)
  • Suggested Guidelines for Opening and Closing Expert Giver Group Meetings
  • List of Figures
  • Figure 1: Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
  • List of Tables
  • Table 1: Master of Resentments
  • Table 2: Resentment #1 (Offenders)
  • Table 3: Resentment List #2 (What Happened / Instincts Affected)
  • Table 4: Resentment List #3 (My Part in What Happened)
  • Table 5: Resentment List #4 (Forgiveness, when I have no part)
  • Table 6: Daily Personal Inventory

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