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Introduction
Chapter 1: Revelations
Revelation 1: I Am
Revelation 2: The One Became the Many
Revelation 3: Everything Is Yours, Not Just Some of It
Revelation 4: The Download
Chapter 2: BeliefsOur Beliefs Create Our Reality
If You Believe Something, Does That Make It Real?
Knowledge Comes from Opinions, Facts, and Personal Experiences
Making Decisions and Judgments Based on Very Limited Information and Experience
What Is Truth?
Faith Is Trust
Chapter 3: Explaining God
A Light Bulb Analogy
Consciousness Versus Conscience
Projecting Our Human Perspective onto Our Definitions of “God”
The Illusion of Separation Hides the Fact That We Are One
Ignore Logic to Proceed
Faith Is Always Required Because Awakenings Become Memories
Ignorance Causes Conflict
I Am
Truth—You Know It When You Hear It
God Is…
Stop Ignoring the Suffering on Earth
Free Will Has Consequences
Our Painful Experiences Can Be Used to Help Others Later
Chapter 4: Needs—Instinctual Drives
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
Needs = Instinctual Drives
Our Needs for Sex and Financial Security (Money) Are the Primary Drivers Behind Our
Selfishness
Life Is Stressful When Physiological Needs Are Not Met or Are Threatened
How Much Money Is Enough?
Finding a Balance Between Saving and Hoarding
Asking Others for Money
Inheritance Can Be a Curse
Can Money Buy Love?
If You Could Be Granted Any Wish, What Would It Be?
Lottery Winners
Happiness Is in the Future Once I Get…
Happiness Is Not a Choice
I’ll Be Happy When I Get More….
Instant Gratification Versus Delayed Gratification
Instincts: Sex, Sex, and More Sex…
Human Partnership Is Usually a Conditional Trade for Sex and Financial Security
Chapter 5: Nature Is Balanced
The Perfect Circle of Giving and Receiving in Nature
Chapter 6: What We Give Is What We Get
Life Is a Boomerang
Drug Dealers Say, “Someone Has to Supply the Demand”
What I Dish Out Comes Back
If You Give Insults, You Will Receive Insults
Do You Get Away with Stealing If Nobody Sees It?
The Results of Making Money by Benefiting Others Versus by Harming Others
Chapter 7: Unconditional Giving
Feelings from Unconditional Giving
Spiritual Awakenings Result from the Action of Unconditional Giving to Others Over Time
Continued Giving Is Required to Maintain a Spiritual Awakening
Are Poor People the “Happiest”?
Happiness Is Only Real When It Is Shared
Self-Focus Is the Problem—Other-Focus Is the Solution
Unconditional Giving Is Sometimes Inconvenient
Helping a Stranger Who Asks
Helping Those Who Don’t Give in Return
HALT!
Keep Giving Consistently, Regardless of Your Circumstances
Say “Yes” to Giving Opportunities
“I Will Help, But Only If I Get Something Out of It”
Are All Your Interactions with People Conditional?
Chapter 8: Setting Limits on Giving
Giving Money
Delaying an Answer to a Financial Request
Drug Addiction Increases Selfishness
Sometimes Not Helping Others Financially Helps Them
Chapter 9: Trust
We Trust Givers
When Losing Trust in Others Is “Wising Up”
Healing Takes Time and Patience
Trusting That Unconditional Giving Is Possible Allows Others to Practice It
Do Not Convert Unconditional Giving to Conditional Giving
Chapter 10: Relationships
“I Can’t Love You Until I Love Myself”
Stress Is the Test for Every Relationship
The Current Trend Is to Make No Commitments
Communicating Your Needs
Saying “I Love You”
Real Love Is the Most Valuable Thing in Life
Chapter 11: What Are You Teaching Others?
We Are Always Teaching Each Other by Example
Reacting to Anger
Who Are Your Heroes and Why?
Givers Are Our Favorites
The Full Cycle of Human Life
Attention Is the Most Important Thing I Can Give My Child
Down Syndrome Teachers
Dog and Cat Teachers
Attractive Qualities
Every Choice Matters
Following My Heart, Not My Head
Chapter 12: Ideas for Giving
The Most Valuable Thing I Can Give to Others Is My Attention
Giving Compliments
Text Others Meaningful Words from Your Heart
Free Compliments—A Great Idea
Smile Often
It Feels Good to Give Others Opportunities to Give
Always Having to “Get the Deal” Is Not Very Giving
Traffic Provides Opportunities to Practice Giving
Always Be Nice to People in Service Positions
Listening to My Heart with a Homeless Couple
Nothing Feels Better Than Giving to Others
I Asked My Daughter, “Why Be a Giver?”
Be Real
Business Giving: Give with No Catch
Exercise = Better Mood = Better Giver
Chapter 13: Forgiveness
Forgiving Means Giving Before It Is Deserved or Earned
Never Lend Money
Asking for Forgiveness
Forgiveness Is Always the Solution
Thumbs-Up and Smile—I Forgive You for Being an Idiot
It Takes Courage and Humility to Apologize When We Are Wrong
Forgive Others When They Apologize for Being Wrong
There Is No Defense Against Love
The Solution to Racism Is Forgiveness
Homosexuality Exists by Design—Live and Let Live
Chapter 14: What’s My Purpose in Life?
Is Your Life’s Purpose Expressed in Your Occupation?
Persistence Is Required to Complete Your Goals
Chapter 15: Clarity on Christianity
Accounts of Jesus in the Bible Were Not Written Down Until Decades After His Death
The Core Message of Christianity
Christianity Has 30,000+ Versions, with Each Claiming Absolute Interpretation of the Truth
Religion’s Rules, Traditions, and Rituals Were Not Part of Jesus’ Message
My First Attempt at “Getting Saved” Was in a Trailer Church in Louisiana
“Jesus, Save Me”—What Part Do I Play?
What Is Hell?
What Is Sin?
Christianity’s Mainstream Interpretation of “Jesus Died for Our Sins”
Grace, Karma, and Forgiveness of Sins
Two Thousand Years Ago, Selfish Instinctual Drives Were Defined as the Devil
In the Year 2000, I Learned the Truth About the “Devil”
“Jesus Is the Only Way”
Become Like Children Again—Return to Innocence
The Core Message Is That “Simple” Works: Focus on One Thing and Do It Well
Oxymoron: A Wealthy Spiritual Leader
Despite Its Shortcomings, Christianity Gives Big
Actions Speak Louder Than Words
What Is God’s Will?
Prayer
A Method of Meditation I Find Easy to Do
The Goal Is Progress, Not Perfection
Chapter 16: Death Is Not the End
Our Ego Dies, Not Our Spirit
Spiritual Death Does Not Exist
The Illusion of Separation
Fear Is Mostly Imagined
What Really Matters at the End of This Human Life?
Chapter 17: My Life Experiences with Grief and Miracles
My Experiences with Grief
The Miracle Healing Story of My Dad’s Pancreatic Cancer
My Dad Contacts Me in a Dream
Chapter 18: World Goals
World Goal 1: Clean Drinking Water for Those Without It
World Goal 2: Adopting Just One Homeless Person or Family
Judging the Homeless in Five Seconds
Four Categories of Homeless People
World Goal 3: Getting Rid of Nuclear Weapons
World Goal 4: Population Reduction
Chapter 19: Expert Giver Groups
Introduction
The Foundation of Expert Giver Groups Comes from AA’s Proven Methods
The 7 Steps of Expert Giver Groups (Short Form)
The 7 Steps of Expert Giver Groups (Long Form)
Step 1: Finding a Mentor in an Expert Giver Group
Step 2: Completing Your Personal Inventories
Step 3: Reviewing All Four of Your Inventories with Your Mentor
Step 4: Making a List of Amends and Reviewing It with Your Mentor
Step 5: Making Your Amends
Step 6: Take a Daily Personal Inventory and Promptly Admit When You Are Wrong
Step 7: Mentoring Others
The Ten Guidelines of Expert Giver Groups (Long Form)
The Ten Guidelines of Expert Giver Groups (Short Form)
Suggested Guidelines for Opening and Closing Expert Giver Group Meetings
List of Figures
Figure 1: Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
List of Tables
Table 1: Master of Resentments
Table 2: Resentment #1 (Offenders)
Table 3: Resentment List #2 (What Happened / Instincts Affected)
Table 4: Resentment List #3 (My Part in What Happened)
Table 5: Resentment List #4 (Forgiveness, when I have no part)
Table 6: Daily Personal Inventory
There’s a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments,
and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance. That principle is contempt
prior to investigation.
—Herbert Spencer
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