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  • Chapter 1: Revelations
  • Revelation 1: I Am
  • Revelation 2: The One Became the Many
  • Revelation 3: Everything Is Yours, Not Just Some of It
  • Revelation 4: The Download
  • Chapter 2: Beliefs | Our Beliefs Create Our Reality
  • If You Believe Something, Does That Make It Real?
  • Knowledge Comes from Opinions, Facts, and Personal Experiences
  • Making Decisions and Judgments Based on Very Limited Information and Experience
  • What Is Truth?
  • Faith Is Trust
  • Chapter 3: Explaining God
  • A Light Bulb Analogy
  • Consciousness Versus Conscience
  • Projecting Our Human Perspective onto Our Definitions of “God”
  • The Illusion of Separation Hides the Fact That We Are One
  • Ignore Logic to Proceed
  • Faith Is Always Required Because Awakenings Become Memories
  • Ignorance Causes Conflict
  • I Am
  • Truth—You Know It When You Hear It
  • God Is…
  • Stop Ignoring the Suffering on Earth
  • Free Will Has Consequences
  • Our Painful Experiences Can Be Used to Help Others Later
  • Chapter 4: Needs | Instinctual Drives
  • Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
  • Needs = Instinctual Drives
  • Our Needs for Sex and Financial Security (Money) Are the Primary Drivers Behind Our Selfishness
  • Life Is Stressful When Physiological Needs Are Not Met or Are Threatened
  • How Much Money Is Enough?
  • Finding a Balance Between Saving and Hoarding
  • Asking Others for Money
  • Inheritance Can Be a Curse
  • Can Money Buy Love?
  • If You Could Be Granted Any Wish, What Would It Be?
  • Lottery Winners
  • Happiness Is in the Future Once I Get…
  • Happiness Is Not a Choice
  • I’ll Be Happy When I Get More….
  • Instant Gratification Versus Delayed Gratification
  • Instincts: Sex, Sex, and More Sex…
  • Human Partnership Is Usually a Conditional Trade for Sex and Financial Security
  • Chapter 5: Nature Is Balanced
  • The Perfect Circle of Giving and Receiving in Nature
  • Chapter 6: What We Give Is What We Get
  • Life Is a Boomerang
  • Drug Dealers Say, “Someone Has to Supply the Demand”
  • What I Dish Out Comes Back
  • If You Give Insults, You Will Receive Insults
  • Do You Get Away with Stealing If Nobody Sees It?
  • The Results of Making Money by Benefiting Others Versus by Harming Others
  • Chapter 7: Unconditional Giving
  • Feelings from Unconditional Giving
  • Spiritual Awakenings Result from the Action of Unconditional Giving to Others Over Time
  • Continued Giving Is Required to Maintain a Spiritual Awakening
  • Are Poor People the “Happiest”?
  • Happiness Is Only Real When It Is Shared
  • Self-Focus Is the Problem—Other-Focus Is the Solution
  • Unconditional Giving Is Sometimes Inconvenient
  • Helping a Stranger Who Asks
  • Helping Those Who Don’t Give in Return
  • HALT!
  • Keep Giving Consistently, Regardless of Your Circumstances
  • Say “Yes” to Giving Opportunities
  • “I Will Help, But Only If I Get Something Out of It”
  • Are All Your Interactions with People Conditional?
  • Chapter 8: Setting Limits on Giving
  • Giving Money
  • Delaying an Answer to a Financial Request
  • Drug Addiction Increases Selfishness
  • Sometimes Not Helping Others Financially Helps Them
  • Chapter 9: Trust
  • We Trust Givers
  • When Losing Trust in Others Is “Wising Up”
  • Healing Takes Time and Patience
  • Trusting That Unconditional Giving Is Possible Allows Others to Practice It
  • Do Not Convert Unconditional Giving to Conditional Giving
  • Chapter 10: Relationships
  •  “I Can’t Love You Until I Love Myself”
  • Stress Is the Test for Every Relationship
  • The Current Trend Is to Make No Commitments
  • Communicating Your Needs
  • Saying “I Love You”
  • Real Love Is the Most Valuable Thing in Life
  • Chapter 11: What Are You Teaching Others?
  •  We Are Always Teaching Each Other by Example
  • Reacting to Anger
  • Who Are Your Heroes and Why?
  • Givers Are Our Favorites
  • The Full Cycle of Human Life
  • Attention Is the Most Important Thing I Can Give My Child
  • Down Syndrome Teachers
  • Dog and Cat Teachers
  • Attractive Qualities
  • Every Choice Matters
  • Following My Heart, Not My Head
  • Chapter 12: Ideas for Giving
  • The Most Valuable Thing I Can Give to Others Is My Attention
  • Giving Compliments
  • Text Others Meaningful Words from Your Heart
  • Free Compliments—A Great Idea
  • Smile Often
  • It Feels Good to Give Others Opportunities to Give
  • Always Having to “Get the Deal” Is Not Very Giving
  • Traffic Provides Opportunities to Practice Giving
  • Always Be Nice to People in Service Positions
  • Listening to My Heart with a Homeless Couple
  • Nothing Feels Better Than Giving to Others
  • I Asked My Daughter, “Why Be a Giver?”
  • Be Real
  • Business Giving: Give with No Catch
  • Exercise = Better Mood = Better Giver
  • Chapter 13: Forgiveness
  • Forgiving Means Giving Before It Is Deserved or Earned
  • Never Lend Money
  • Asking for Forgiveness
  • Forgiveness Is Always the Solution
  • Thumbs-Up and Smile—I Forgive You for Being an Idiot
  • It Takes Courage and Humility to Apologize When We Are Wrong
  • Forgive Others When They Apologize for Being Wrong
  • There Is No Defense Against Love
  • The Solution to Racism Is Forgiveness
  • Homosexuality Exists by Design—Live and Let Live
  • Chapter 14: What’s My Purpose in Life?
  • Is Your Life’s Purpose Expressed in Your Occupation?
  • Persistence Is Required to Complete Your Goals
  • Chapter 15: Clarity on Christianity
  • Accounts of Jesus in the Bible Were Not Written Down Until Decades After His Death
  • The Core Message of Christianity
  • Christianity Has 30,000+ Versions, with Each Claiming Absolute Interpretation of the Truth
  • Religion’s Rules, Traditions, and Rituals Were Not Part of Jesus’ Message
  • My First Attempt at “Getting Saved” Was in a Trailer Church in Louisiana
  • “Jesus, Save Me”—What Part Do I Play?
  • What Is Hell?
  • What Is Sin?
  • Christianity’s Mainstream Interpretation of “Jesus Died for Our Sins”
  • Grace, Karma, and Forgiveness of Sins
  • Two Thousand Years Ago, Selfish Instinctual Drives Were Defined as the Devil
  • In the Year 2000, I Learned the Truth About the “Devil”
  • “Jesus Is the Only Way”
  • Become Like Children Again—Return to Innocence
  • The Core Message Is That “Simple” Works: Focus on One Thing and Do It Well
  • Oxymoron: A Wealthy Spiritual Leader
  • Despite Its Shortcomings, Christianity Gives Big
  • Actions Speak Louder Than Words
  • What Is God’s Will?
  • Prayer
  • A Method of Meditation I Find Easy to Do
  • The Goal Is Progress, Not Perfection
  • Chapter 16: Death Is Not the End
  • Our Ego Dies, Not Our Spirit
  • Spiritual Death Does Not Exist
  • The Illusion of Separation
  • Fear Is Mostly Imagined
  • What Really Matters at the End of This Human Life?
  • Chapter 17: My Life Experiences with Grief and Miracles
  • My Experiences with Grief
  • The Miracle Healing Story of My Dad’s Pancreatic Cancer
  • My Dad Contacts Me in a Dream
  • Chapter 18: World Goals
  •  World Goal 1: Clean Drinking Water for Those Without It
  • World Goal 2: Adopting Just One Homeless Person or Family
  • Judging the Homeless in Five Seconds
  • Four Categories of Homeless People
  • World Goal 3: Getting Rid of Nuclear Weapons
  • World Goal 4: Population Reduction
  • Chapter 19: Expert Giver Groups
  •  Introduction
  • The Foundation of Expert Giver Groups Comes from AA’s Proven Methods
  • The 7 Steps of Expert Giver Groups (Short Form)
  • The 7 Steps of Expert Giver Groups (Long Form)
  • Step 1: Finding a Mentor in an Expert Giver Group
  • Step 2: Completing Your Personal Inventories
  • Step 3: Reviewing All Four of Your Inventories with Your Mentor
  • Step 4: Making a List of Amends and Reviewing It with Your Mentor
  • Step 5: Making Your Amends
  • Step 6: Take a Daily Personal Inventory and Promptly Admit When You Are Wrong
  • Step 7: Mentoring Others
  • The Ten Guidelines of Expert Giver Groups (Long Form)
  • The Ten Guidelines of Expert Giver Groups (Short Form)
  • Suggested Guidelines for Opening and Closing Expert Giver Group Meetings
  • List of Figures
  • Figure 1: Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
  • List of Tables
  • Table 1: Master of Resentments
  • Table 2: Resentment #1 (Offenders)
  • Table 3: Resentment List #2 (What Happened / Instincts Affected)
  • Table 4: Resentment List #3 (My Part in What Happened)
  • Table 5: Resentment List #4 (Forgiveness, when I have no part)
  • Table 6: Daily Personal Inventory
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